HILLARY SPIRITOS
Your life can and should be invigorating, meaningful, and sustainable. Hell Yes!
Explore what’s next, understand and overcome the obstacles in your way, and develop an action plan. I will be your coach and guide along the way.
Doing this work now will save you time, money, and save you from the despair that comes from living a life that is not your own.
Are you overwhelmed by the options ahead of you?
Do you feel like everyone around you knows what they're doing and you're running behind?
Are you paralyzed by making personal or professional decisions?
Do you feel lost, unmotivated, and uninspired?
Are you afraid you’ll get it “wrong”?
You're not alone. And it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you.
In fact, it probably means there's something right with you.
This is your one and only life and you owe it to yourself to make it as you wish it to be.
P.S. You don’t necessarily need a therapist, your parents probably can’t really relate (much as they might try), and your friends are likely not objective. Most importantly, they are not YOU.
As a certified pathfinding coach, I offer you that unique in-between space to create and execute your life road map.
BE A BAT OUTTA HELL
Bats are highly adaptable, social, and perceptive creatures. They symbolize rebirth, tenacity, and can navigate in the dark (aka the unknown). Bats trust their senses and spend much of their time upside-down, seeing the world from a different perspective. They represent the shedding of the old to create the new, the facing of fears, and entering the dark on the way to the light. Be the bat.
HILLARY SPIRITOS M.A., C.L.C.
CONTACT ME
- 1:1 Coaching
- Small Group Coaching
- One-off Conversation to Talk Something Through
- Workshop Facilitation and Public Speaking
Possessing a unique expertise in the study abroad experience, I speak and conduct workshops on maximizing the study abroad experience; pre-departure, on-site, and returning home.
- Imagine and articulate your interests, goals, and dreams
- Grapple with what gives you meaning and purpose
- Develop an actionable plan
- Own your fears and insecurities
- Find the courage take the next steps
Relationships, academics, career transitions – any space in which you’re feeling blocked is fair game.
My role is not to tell you what you should do, but rather, to guide you in figuring it out for yourself – to help you cultivate a deeper curiosity, let go of shame or self-censoring, and become creative, out-of-the-box, and agile in your exploration.
You can research all the external tips and tricks offered out there, but until you become aware and accountable for how you personally interact with your circumstances, your old patterns will not change.
This work is not easy. It asks that you dig deep into not knowing. Anxiety and other unpleasant feelings may surface, but it is in these swampy spaces that transformation happens and the path forward reveals itself.
Our world is in a state of rapid change, and we must also be adaptable, open, willing, and courageous to meet this moment.
I invite you to contact me if you are tired of feeling defeated and at war with yourself and your circumstances, and are ready to create your invigorating, meaningful, sustainable life.
I am a trained and certified life coach. I hold a BA from Duke University and an MA in International Education from NYU.
I have led workshops on leadership development, interview skills, public speaking, cultivating your own voice, imposter syndrome, failure and resilience, fear and courage, and study abroad.
In addition to coaching, I have years of rich life experience working as an Academic Advisor at NYU and Northeastern University and working in the corporate sector as an employee and in freelance. I have solo backpacked across the world, have moved and lived abroad independently, and have made lifelong friends in every new adventure.
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I offer a tailored personal approach.
Together we will determine the time frame and structure (virtual or in-person) of our meetings.
Working with a diverse group of individuals and helping you set out on your next life adventures is immensely gratifying and uplifting. It has been a privilege and an honor to be trusted by each individual who has found and forged their path with me.
Hillary’s style is supportive and challenging and she’s pushed me to grow in ways I didn't expect. She’s easy to talk to, funny, and relatable and I felt comfortable right away. In a short time, she helped me see my strengths and use them to my advantage, especially in job interviews. – HARPER
I reached out to Hillary because I was stuck and didn’t know what direction to go in. I just felt lost and wasn’t interested in anything. She really listened and took the time to help me figure out what I really wanted to do even if it’s different than what my friends are doing. – MAX
Working with Hillary has helped me navigate personal challenges and gave me tools that I can use every day. She never judged what I was saying and allowed me to really speak my mind and say whatever I was feeling. It was so great to have her unwavering support and not feel like I had to figure this out by myself. – CLAUDIA
If this resonates, please contact me for a free 30 minute consultation.
hillary@batouttahell.net
“I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.”
-The #1 regret in Bronnie Ware’s The Top Five Regrets of the Dying